towardsloveandlearning，collegeteachersandstudentsholdcontroversialviews。
themajorityofcollegeteachers，especiallyoldteachers，arguethatstudentsshouldgiveuploveandconcentrateonlearning。theysaythatcampusloveistime-and-energy-consumingandtearsstudentsawayfromtheirmaintask。ifastudenteverfallsinlove,he/shewillundoubtedlyneglecthis/herstudiesandgraduallylagbehindhis/herclassmates。afewteachers，therefore,suggestthattheuniversityauthoritiesrestorethetraditionalregulationagainstloveduringstudents’schoolyears。
onthecontrary，studentsholdthatitisnaturalforyoungpeopletofallinloveonthecampusbecausetheymeeteverydayandtheireverydaymeetingproducesromanticpassiontowardseachother。theyinsistthatthecampusisnotthegardenofedenandloveisnottheforbiddentree。theytakeforexamplesomeoftheirfriendswho,fallinginlove，arestudyingharderandhavemadegreaterprogresstopleasetheirboy/girlfriends。
inmyopinion，bothviewsarelop-sided。ifastudentdoesnotgivehimself/herselfawayinlovebuttakesitasadrive，loveproducespositiveeffect。butifhe/sheindulgeshimself/herselftoodeeplyinlove,thenhe/shewillbeadevotedloverbutafrustratedlearner。
Nowadays,withthedevelopmentoftechnology,peoplecandoalotofthingsthroughcomputers.SomepeoplecanworkathomebecausetheycanmanipulatethebusinessbyInternet.Inthedevelopedcountries,anewformofstudyhasbeencarriedout,manyyoungpeoplechoosetostudyonline.
如今，随着技术的发展，人们可以通过电脑做很多事情。有些人可以在家里工作，因为他们可以通过网络操作业务。在发达国家，一种新的学习方式已经开始实施，许多年轻人选择在网上学习。
Ontheonehand,studyingonlinecansavepeoplealotoftime.Forsomepeople,theschoolissofarawayfromtheirhome,ittakesalongtimetogotoschool.Iftheystudyonline,theydon’tneedtospendthetimeontheroad,theyjustclickonthebuttonandthentheknowledgeispresented.
一方面，网上学习可以节省人们很多时间。对一些人来说，学校是如此远离家园，走到学校需要很长的时间。如果他们在线学习，不需要花时间在路上，他们只需要点击按钮，然后知识就会呈现在眼前。
Ontheotherhand,studyingonlinealsosavesalotofmoney.Withoutthelargespendontheeducationandthefeesonothersides,manyfamiliesstruggletopayfortheirchildren’seducationalcost.Studyingonlinecostslittle,evenforfree.Itprovidesagoodwayforsomepeoplewhowanttolearnknowledgewhilewithoutenoughmoney.
另一方面，网上学习也可以节省很多钱。不用花大把钱在教育和其他方面的费用，很多家庭难以支付孩子的教育费用。在线学习成本小，甚至免费。对于一些想学习知识但是没有足够钱的人，它提供了一种很好的学习方式。
TheFunnyThingofLearningEnglish
IsawaninterestingscenefromaTVshow.Agirlandaboywereforcedtohavetheblinddate,andtheyknownothingbeforetheycametothedinnertable.Theyfeltembarrassedandafterintroducingeachother,thegirlbegantospeakEnglishwiththeboy.Theparentsdidnotknowwhattheyweretalkingabout,buttheyfelthappytoseethemmunicating.Actually,theboyandthegirlsaidtheydidn’twantthisdateanddecidedtotelltheirparentsthetruth,andtheyfeltrelieved.Masteringanotherlanguageprovidespeoplemorewaystomunicate.Sometimeswecanuseitinthefunway.
Weallmakemistakeswhichareinevitable.Whatmakesmistakesworseisfailuretocorrectyourownmistakes.Whilemakingmistakesisgood,repeatingmistakesisdefinitelynot.Apartfromcorrectingyourownmistakes,weshouldlearnfromthemistakesaswell.
错误不可避免，最糟糕的是我们不纠正自我的错误。制造错误有好处，重复错误就不必须是对的，除了要纠正我们的错误，我们也要从错误中学习。
Youcanonlylearnfromyouadmityouhavemadeone.Assoonasyoustartblamingotherpeople,youdistanceyourselffromanypossiblelessonthatcouldbelearnedfromit.Admissionofmistake,evenifonlyprivatelytoyourself,makelearningpossiblebymovingthefocusawayfromblamingyourselfandtowardsunderstanding.Wisepeopleadmittheirmistakeseasily.Theyknowprogressaccelerateswhentheytheotherhand,formanyreasonsadmittingmistakesisdifficult.Thisiswhysomepeopleconsiderthatpeoplecanlearnnothingfrommistakes.Weareeducatedinschool,inourfamilies,oratworktofeelguiltyaboutfailureandtodowhateverwecantoavoidmistakes.Thissenseofshamebinedwiththeinevitabilityofsetbackswhenattemptingdifficultthingsexplainswhymanypeoplegiveupontheirgoals:theyarenotpreparedforthemistakesandfailurestheywillfaceontheirwaytowhattheywant.
你能够只从你已经承认的错误中学习，一旦你开始责备别人，你就会使自我远离那些可能从中学到东西的可能性。允许错误的产生，对于自我私下可能学到的教训，要是能够透过把焦点转移到责备自我并且走向理解层面那该多好啊。明智的人更容易理解他们的错误。他们明白做什么时能加速进步。这就是一些人思考人们在错误中学不到任何东西的原因。我们在学校中受教育，在家庭或者在工作中对失败感动愧疚，并尽我们所能来避免错误。当结合挫折的必然性解释了为什么很多人放下了自我的目标：他们没有为他们想要走的路上遇到的错误和失败作准备。
Inconclusion,wecanandcouldlearngoodlessonsfrompastmistakesinordertobemoresuccessfulinourprivateandpubliclives.
总之，为了在我们私人和公共的生活中取得更多的成功，我们能从过去的错误中学到一堂很好的课。