Accordingtothevarietyofsocialbackground,personalexperienceandpersonalemotion,differerntpeoplehavedifferentopinionstowardsthings.Thus,thereisnodoubtthatgenerationgapexistseverywhere.Wealwaysfindthattherearebigdifferencesbetweenusandtheoldgeneration.Wealwaysregardtheoldareoutdated,whiletheythinkusarecrazy.Theycan’tbearthedresswelike,thefashionwepursueorevenourchildishthinking.Instead,wecouldputupwiththeirstandpatthingkingandtheir“feudalrulers”.
Thus,thegenerationgapbecomesmoreandmoreobviousandserious.However,whydon’twerealizethatopinionscanbechanged,whilepeoplecan’t.So,wecanthinkinanotherway,learntoaccept.Itiscertainthatwecannarrowthegenerationgaptoliveamoreharmoniouslife.
GenerationgapGenerationgapreferstothedistanceandcontradiction(矛盾)betweentheoldandtheyouth。It’samon(常见的)phenomenon(现象)thatexitseverywhereintheworldandinfluencesboththeoldandtheyouth。Generallyspeaking,generationgapresultsindifferentunderstandingandappreciationofthegreatandconstantchangesoftheworld,differentreactiontonewthings,anddifferentattitudestotradition(传统)principles(原则)andbeliefs。Therefore,wemaysaywheretherearetheoldandtheyouth;thereisthegenerationgap。Generationgapisnatural,butveryinfluential(有影响的)。Ifwecannotdealwithitappropriately(适当地),thegapwillbegreaterandgreaterandconsequently(结果)affecttheworkandtherelationbetweentheoldandtheyoung。
Accordingtothevarietyofsocialbackground,personalexperienceandpersonalemotion,differerntpeoplehavedifferentopinionstowardsthings.Thus,thereisnodoubtthatgenerationgap
existseverywhere.
Wealwaysfindthattherearebigdifferencesbetweenusandtheoldgeneration.Wealwaysregardtheoldareoutdated,whiletheythinkusarecrazy.Theycan'tbearthedresswelike,thefashionwepursueorevenourchildishthinking.Instead,wecouldputupwiththeirstandpatthingkingandtheir“feudalrulers”。
Thus,thegenerationgapbecomesmoreandmoreobviousandserious.However,whydon'twerealizethatopinionscanbechanged,whilepeoplecan't.So,wecanthinkinanotherway,learntoaccept.Itiscertainthatwecannarrowthegenerationgaptoliveamoreharmoniouslife.
Withthedevelopmentofsociety,thegenerationgapbetweenchildrenandtheirparentshasbecomeasocialproblem.Hereissomeadviceonhelpingbridgethegenerationgap.
First,weshouldrespectourparents.ItisthevirtueofChinesepeople.Thisistheeasiesttosayandthehardesttodo.Second,wemustavoidconflictwithourparents.Ifwethinkthatourparentsaredoingsomethingwronglyandwanttocorrecttheirmistakes,wemustgiveouropinionsinaproperway.Third,weshouldreachacompromisewith
ourparents.Withanearlierdealanddiscussion,neitherparentsnorchildrenwillbehurtbyeachother.Finally,wemustcommunicatewithourparentsasmuchaspossible.Therearemuchmisunderstandingbetweenus.Andweshouldhaveatalk.
Inaword,agoodrelationshipwithparentsmakesusahappierperson.Itisworththeeffort.
Accordingtothevarietyofsocialbackground,personalexperienceandpersonalemotion,differerntpeoplehavedifferentopinionstowardsthings.
Thus,thereisnodoubtthatgenerationgapexistseverywhere.Wealwaysfindthattherearebigdifferencesbetweenusandtheoldgeneration.
Wealwaysregardtheoldareoutdated,whiletheythinkusarecrazy.Theycan’tbearthedresswelike,thefashionwepursueorevenourchildishthinking.Instead,wecouldputupwiththeirstandpatthingkingandtheir“feudalrulers”.
Thus,thegenerationgapbecomesmoreandmoreobviousandserious.However,whydon’twerealizethatopinionscanbechanged,whilepeoplecan’t.
So,wecanthinkinanotherway,learntoaccept.Itiscertainthatwecannarrowthegenerationgaptoliveamoreharmoniouslife.
GenerationGap
Thoughmanyaspectsofoursociallifehavebeenimproved,thegenerationgapbetweentheyouthsandtheoldersremainandevengrowswider。
Inmyopinion,becauseoftheinfluenceofindividualismfromwesterncivilization,theyouthsdonotblindlyfollowwhattheelderssay,thatcausesthegap。Theyoungarecreativeandrevolutionary,alwaysgoalongwiththetrendandlikechanging。Whiletheold,accustomedtoeverythingofthepast,arehostiletochange。Alsowithmoreandmoredifferentbeliefsandphilosophicalideas,itisnaturaltheyoungholddifferentopinionsfromtheold。
Ithinkinordertonarrowthegap,bothpartsshouldtrytounderstandandrespecteachother,insteadoftryingtochangeothersastheywish。Diversitydoesn'tmeanconflictsolongastheyholdtherightattitudetowardstheproblems。